Condom or no condom?

Condom or no condom? I mentioned that I had become aroused because Diane sent me a text saying that she has had a coil fitted. I love unprotected sex. When a man wears a condom, he can feel little of the friction between himself and the woman, but I still prefer condoms much of the time, because of the fear of catching something.



To my constant surprise, the overwhelming majority of women who are either post-menopausal or who have a coil or take the pill, don't expect safe sex. Most men and women dislike condoms. Putting them on is a turn off. They also make the penis look stupid. they reduce feeling especially for the man and they prevent a woman from experiencing one of her most basic desires - feeling a man cum inside her and experiencing the infusion of semen. A man's primaeval desire to cum inside a woman is matched by an equally strong desire of the woman to feel the man cum in her.



As I said, I am constantly surprised that a new partner - a woman I don't really know and am meeting for the first time - will not want me to wear a condom. I am careful. It's not that I never have unprotected sex, because I do, and I love it, but there has to be a certainty beyond reasonable doubt that the woman carries no infection.



I may have had a charmed life, but I have never had an std, except that Norma and I had thrush many years ago. this is sexually transmitted but can be caught without sex simply from fungal spores in the air. Celebate monks and nuns get it. It isn't dangerous. Having said that, I get myself checked out once in a while. I used to go to special clinics in hospitals. One can keep one's anonymity there and one's GP isn't contacted by them. However, I now go to my GP every six months. When I have a six monthly check for cholesterol etc, as men should at my age, I get tests done for stds at the same time.



I mentioned that I do have unprotected sex at times. let me explain the circumstances. Most women I meet are extremely nice, ordinary people with husbands and families. I have a really good nose for genuineness and honesty. I make a judgement. If in doubt, I wear protection, even if the woman doesn't require it. So far, my instincts have proved right. I don't wish to get complacent and will be for ever on my guard.



Now, the thought of having hours of sex with Diane, the dentist and finally, at the culmination, pumping lots of that sticky white cum into her vagina makes me go weak at the knees. But, do I trust her that much? I'll let you know