I'm a Wolf, but I care

There have been four occasions this year when I have gone to great lengths to meet a new lover and she has backed out at the last minute - not through cold feet, but because of circumstances. On each occasion, I had paid for a hotel. On three occasions, I had travelled a long distance.

One had a sudden family bereavement. Another had a child who fell ill. Another fell ill herself. I may be a wolf, preoccupied with the thought of getting into a new woman's knickerss, but one she is in difficulty, be it bereavement, sickness or family problems, a different side of me comes into play: I genuinely care and bear no grudge at the let-down. One of them described me on a later date, as the 'kindest, gentlest man she had ever met.

An empathy with women or with people of any gender does endear women to me. It is not a ploy, but a genuine part of my nature. The flip side is that I am as horny as hell and will go to great lengths to get a woman into bed. However, my lust will never be at the cost of causing hurt.