Not always a winner with women

I need to correct an impression: It might appear that women fall into my lap. That is far from the truth. My success is in part due to the fact that I try hard. There have been many occasions when I have been refused. I met a very nice Belgian woman in Frankfurt Airport. To my surprise, she had no German. She spoke English, French and Flemish. My German is the phrasebook type, but I came to her rescue. I discovered that we both had a long wait ahead so I bought her a coffee. We exchanged phone numbers and I thought that I was on to a winner. A month later, I was in Brussels and took her to dinner. The setting was perfect, but I didn’t even get to hold her hand.

In June this year, I met a married woman whom I had found on an alternative dating web site. We had exchanged photos and spent a lot of time chatting on the phone. After only ten minutes with her, she said, ‘Sorry, you aren’t my type.’ She got up and walked away.

Chemistry with women is everything. I have been fortunate enough to have gelled with lots of women, but by no means in every case. If you are a man reading this blog and feel envious, be assured that you can be as successful as I. Try hard to source the right women, but don’t try too hard to make it with them too soon or you will frighten them off, and rightly so. Here are a few tips, 1. Don’t be crude. Most women do not want to see a picture of your cock. There are exceptions, but wait till they ask you. Never offer. I have only once every sent such a picture and the woman was asking me to send it for months before I agreed. 2. Be charming and be interested in their whole lives, not just in their bra size. I never ask a woman how big her boobs are. It is of little interest to me. I love women’s breasts, large or small. If a woman had lost her breasts through cancer and surgery, I would want to surround her with affection, make her happy, and pleasure her just as as much, or even more, than if she were 38 DD. 3. Care about the whole woman. 4. be a gentleman out of bed, even if you are a stallion in bed. Women like flowers and perfume. They like doors opening for them. 5. Be scrupulously clean. Get into the habit of showering twice or more a day, even when you aren’t going to meet a lover. 6. Dress well. 7. Be warm, relaxed and gentle. 8. Don’t try to rush a relationship. Go at the woman’s pace, but always try to anticipate that. Women do like to be swept off their feet, but if she indicates that you are going too fast, slow down and wait for the right signal. Kissing is a good way of assessing temperature.

However, the lady dentist I am about to meet has given clear signals that she wants sex on the first meeting. She told me to bring plenty of condoms. I feel very turned on at the thought of this woman, a woman around 20 years my junior. She works out in a gym three times a week – let’s see how my stamina holds. I’ll let you know…