Reply to Marie

Marie,

You say that you would feel guilty and then you ask for advice on how to start. Are you really sure you want go down this route? I suggest you do some good hard thinking to try to come to terms with what your instincts are.

If you get over the guilt hurdle, then do what most of my lovers have done - either advertise or read the adverts of guys. Be prepared for a very big response and be prepared to wade through lots of undesirable replies, but you will find gold. Also, you know the rules about the need to meet in public places and never be alone with a man unless you are 110% sure that he is what he claims to be. It's always a good idea to chat on the phone a good deal before meeting. You can tell an awful lot about someone by their conversation. That may mean that you will need a secret sim card for your phone. Good luck and all the best.