Friday, 22 August 2008

Sex In Different Cultures

Hommo Sapiens began a migration out of the East African Rift Valley around 120,000 years ago and spread around the world. During that migration, discrete races evolved. Before I experienced intimacy with women from different parts of the world, I wondered if love making might be practised and experienced differently according to culture and race.

The most recent common ancestors of the people of China and Caucasians could have lived as long ago as 85,000 years. Africans and Caucasians could have split even longer ago. During those thousands of years, facial features, skin pigmentation and hair have evolved differently within each racial group. I used to wonder if love making had evolved differently. Of my lovers, two have been African, two Chinese and one Indian. In each case, none had had a Western lover before me.

In each case, if my eyes had been closed, I would not have known that the woman was of a different race. When both of us were in the heat of passion – that time when everything is shut out except ecstasy and one is lost to everything except the sheer pleasure - then our bodies moved instinctively in harmonious, erotic rhythm. I conclude that human intimacy, the techniques, instinct and derived pleasures are primaeval.

Furthermore, we all share the same enjoyment of different sexual positions. There were no surprises, except that one of the Chinese women wanted only the ‘missionary’ position. The other Chinese woman was the opposite and we shared ten positions, all of which most Western couples practice.

The joy of all this is that I, and others, have had and can have the incredible pleasure of united body and soul with people of different races. If you have similar or different experiences, why don’t you put a comment on this blog?

I observe that there are a lot of adverts from women wanting sex with African men. If you are one of those women, why don't you tell us of your experiences?

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