Sex With Norma and Paucity of Readers

Two matters to address today. The first is sex with Norma, my wife. Please don’t expect me to be too graphic. It would be unfair on her. We first had sex 44 years ago at my parents’ house when they were away visiting my grandparents. I was 18 and she was 17. I still remember it vividly. When I put my hand up her skirt, pulled aside her pants, touched her between her legs and my finger went inside, it was, up to that time in my life, the most magical moment ever. I could only imagine what it would be like up to that point, but now I felt that delicious soft, wetness. And next, I could smell her juices and it was pure heaven. Why some women get embarrassed about the smell of their juices or try to eliminate them I will never know. It is a smell that transports a man to a level of pleasure so high that is not easy to describe.

Then, when she touched me and I was allowed to push my penis inside her, the feeling intensified. I didn’t achieve a very deep penetration that first time. Only my glans and a little more was inside, but it was enough for me to know that I liked this more than anything in the whole world. I had found the ultimate experience. That’s the way it still is. Nothing comes near it.

Though I have had in excess of sixty lovers and rising, I still get an incredible thrill when I penetrate Norma. Women sometimes ask me what is my favourite position. Well, I don’t have one, because variety is good. I’m not into contortion or ‘doing a position’ just because it’s tricky. My only use of different positions with Norma or any woman is to intensify the feeling and the stimulation. A different position means that the penis and vagina are in a slightly different relation, thus enhancing enjoyment. So Norma and I vary it every time. There is nothing in our sex live that is unusual, though occasionally, she likes her wrists tying to the bed head and for me to 'use' her as I wish. I said I like variety. Well that goes for styles of sex, too. I love the mutual and romantic with both bodies in absolute harmony. I also by way of change also like to be dominant and have often acted out 'rough' scenarios where the woman wants me to use her body for my gratification and for me to be a little rough. All this is by mutual consent. So, Norma and I still have a varied sex life and even had sex out of doors last year.

And now a second matter which is of great concern to me. I have only a handful of loyal readers. I analyse how many hits the web site has and how many return visits there are. (Don’t worry – the software doesn’t tell me who you are. It simply says how many and how many of those have visited previously.) My principal means of getting the site known was through Gumtree and Viva Street, both of which have stopped my ads. I therefore have no means of replacing any readers who fall away, so if you value this site, you might suggest to me how it can be publicised – philanderer@live.co.uk – or else you can help by making it known.

Finally, it was good to have Marie making a comment. She is the first of you to do so. May there be more. In order for you to make a comment, you need to join the Google Community. You can do this and keep anonymity. All you do is attempt to leave a comment and Google will prompt you.

As mentioned, weekends are not usually time for extra marital activity, so back to the gardening later today. I will tell you more about lovers past and present tomorrow.