Sex with the Shy

My date for Thursday afternoon has backed off. She tells me it’s because of nerves. I have no reason to disbelieve her. All along, she has told me that she is very shy at first and that I may have to be patient with her.

I need to preface postings by making clear that when I write, ‘many women’ or ‘often’, I simply mean in my experience. The sample of women I have encountered is tiny and therefore I may be statistically wrong. So, here goes:

Many women have a longing to have sex with men who aren’t their husbands, but that longing is counterbalanced by nervousness. The nervousness can be in relation to their own morals or a fear of being found out or of meeting with a Mr Hyde. Before the days of the internet, I had arranged to meet the wife of a senior police officer at a certain motorway services. I hadn’t seen her picture, but I knew that she would be wearing a blue and white dress, black shoes and carrying a black hand bag. She told me that she had shoulder length blonde hair, was a size 12, and was aged 35, I was carrying a copy of my favourite broad sheet.

We agreed to meet at the main entrance to the building where the shops and cafes were. At precisely noon, the time agreed, a woman of her description walked towards me, but then her eyes averted and she walked straight past. I smiled and tried to catch he eye. Was that the woman I had arranged to meet or was her appearance a co-incidence? She certainly didn’t turned up. I wondered if it was the woman and if, having seen me, didn’t fancy me.

Next day, I received a letter in a brown business envelope – the type I have always asked my lovers to use when writing, in order not to raise suspicion at home. The letter was an apology. The woman I had seen was her, but she had had a sudden bout of nerves. She asked for another chance. We met next day and got off to a quick start, making love in my car. She became a regular visitor to my office when the staff had gone home. I have delicious memories of her bending over my desk and being taken from behind, as well as on top of the desk and on the floor. I would never have guessed from my early disappointment just how horny she could be.

So, many women have deep desires to be unfaithful, but are limited by their inhibitions. I count myself fortunate to have been part of their liberation. A gentle, patient approach is needed. Let’s see if I can meet Thursday’s cancelled date on another occasion.