Talking Dirty

These days, I find the majority of my lovers on the internet. Up to meeting, there is the process of exchanging e-mails, photos and text messages. Before I've spoken to a woman, I'm always suspicious if 'she' initiates dirty talk through MSN or text. I am convinced that there is a significant minority of men purporting to be women on dating and adult sites. I believe that I have uncovered two of them for certain.

One of these 'women' told me that she had her husband's permission and that I could get her on the phone if I rang him. I did so. He said she wasn't there but she had asked me to tell her husband graphically what I wanted to do to her. I declined. There was no woman, only a man wanting me to talk dirty.

However, in the past two weeks, I have found a woman who is a match for any man in dirty talk and texts. Her text this morning read, 'I want you to f*ck me and for it to run down my legs when I'm walking home.' Not sure what I though of that after I'd had a hearty breakfast. I prefer the real thing to dirty talk, but if that's the seduction that will get me inside the lady's underwear, bring it on.

Tiger Woods and Sex Addiction

Some years ago, I went to therapy because I felt guilty because I kept being unfaithful to Norma. There was a cycle: I would be unfaithful, I'd feel guilty, I'd be sorry, tell myself I would never do it again, get turned on by the thought of entering a 'new' vagina, commit adultery, feel guilty...

I tried the sort of therapy that would get rid of my inclinations and it just didn't work. The feelings kept coming to the surface. Then I tried a different therapist. The sessions lasted two years and I came out of it a changed person. I accepted myself as I am. I feel so much happier and much more relaxed. I can even say 'no' to sex much more easily, because I know who I am. (It's not often that I say 'no' but I have done twice with what I believe were vulnerable women.)

I love women and I love making love to them. I love the romantic - holding hands, a gentle kiss on the neck, the smell of perfume, the giving of flowers, romantic dinners. I also love the earthy, the smell of a woman's juices, rough sex at times, talking filthy when she is in the mood. I love it all.

Another Man's Wife

She is lovely, size 10, 34c, pretty face, 45 and loves sex with an older man. She's a natural blonde, but I have no preference when it comes to women's hair. Her profession would indicate that she is conservative, reserved and perhaps even asexual. Not so. She is among a small percentage of women who seem to have a man's view of sex. She is not shy to say that she masturbates regularly and enjoys the odd porn film. She often takes the initiative by getting into my trousers to suck me.

However, her favourite position is missionary. She loves being under a man. Well aren't I lucky? I will be with her in just over an hour.

Changing the subject, I'd love to hear your stories of philandering, whether you are a man or a woman. I can also add you to twitter: philanderer@live.co.uk

Nigerian Beauty

A 25 year old Nigerian woman contacted me through this site. She is married with three children but her husband works away. Norma went to see her mother a few Saturdays ago and I visited the young woman. She asked me to pay for child care so she could see me alone. I agreed.

We had safe sex - I sometimes don't use condoms, but she had had unprotected sex with someone only a couple of months before, so I was cautious.

She wanted to sit on the settee and kiss and for me to insert fingers in her while she gave me a BJ. She wouldn't use the bedroom. That was out of some loyalty to her husband. Strange - she would screw me, but not where her husband did it to her.

All in all, it wasn't very satisfying. She said she liked kissing, but there was no contact with her mouth or lips for more than a second. It was as if she was pecking me with her lips. I have had African lovers before and they have all been delicious kissers.

However, her vaginal muscles were strong and she used them well.

I won't be going to see her again.

Tomorrow, I'll tell you about a new lover from a city 40 miles from here. She's married and on the large side.

Keep philandering,

I'm Back, Philandering

Apologies to my readers. Time got the better of me. I have been very active, so I will give a brief resume and follow it up with some detail on later days.

However, if you are new to this site, it's best you read the archives, starting from the beginning. It tells the whole story.

Going back a few months, I visited a divorcee of around 55 years old. Gorgeous figure. I went to her place on Sunday mornings when I told my wife I was going to see my mother. The woman always wore a silk robe and nothing else. We went straight to bed, each time. She was fantastic and like an animal in the best way possible. She orgasmed two or three times, each time I was with her. She preferred to be on top and for me to suck her very ample breasts, while she writhed and bucked. I pumped and pumped cum inside her while she rode me. that lasted a couple of months. she sent me a text saying, "I've found someone I want to live with me. Please never contact me again."

Then, really strangely, I was e-mailed by one of my customers. I had had a drink with him at a conference a few weeks earlier. I never boast to men about my philanderings, but he confided and said that he had had an affair. I told him not to worry about it.

Anyway, he emailed me and asked if I would meet him for a drink. I did so a few weeks later. he said he had always wanted to see another man screw his wife. He asked me if I was game.

I did, and she was gorgeous, absolutely beautiful. She was mid 40s with a beautiful figure and was as up for it as he was. Frankly, I didn't feel at ease with him there, but got so turned on that I forgot his presence. I have been invited back regularly and now, I am hardly aware that he is there.

I'll tell you more tomorrow about Lorraine from Merseyside and a 25 year old Nigerian beauty.

Meanwhile, sex with Norma is still great after 40 years of marriage.

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