Tougher For Men Than Women, perhaps?

I sometimes wish I were a woman. It’s not a desire for a sex change, but it seems it might make getting sex easier. From my limited view, it is much easier for a philandering woman to find partners than for a man. Evidence for this is that a number of web sites are free to women but very expensive to men. This gives a more even gender balance than those where both sexes pay the same. On those sites where it costs the same for both genders, there can be five times more men than women. Five men are chasing one woman, whereas one woman has the pick of five men. Statistically, this means that it isn’t five times harder for a man but five times five – 25 times harder. On other web sites there are three times as many men, which makes it nine times harder.

I have spent a huge amount of my time looking for women. When I have found them and met them, I have around 95% success in having a successful relationship, but it takes so much time and energy. I am on the lookout constantly. Having a very pressurised work life and a happy home life, makes the hunt even tougher. I am still successful, where many men aren’t. I get emails from men who ask me for tips because they have had little luck.

So, guys, here are a few tips that will help you with most women, though there are exceptions:


1. Be normal.
2. Don’t send unsolicited cock pics and don’t put them on a web site. Women absolutely love cocks, especially erect ones, but not from cold. They need wooing – old fashioned lecherous seduction. Once you have a relationship with a woman, then you will judge how much cock talk and visualisation she wants, but she wants the man, initially, not his organ in her face.
3. Be interested in the whole woman. She may have a husband and children. All my lovers have told me about their home lives.
4. Stay on line. If you belong to a dating web site, log in as often as possible for as long as possible, even if the application is just running in the background while you are doing other things.
5. When you are in contact, listen to the woman’s needs and be flexible.
6. When you meet, you must be very tidy and well turned out. (I won’t advise you to be clean, because it’s too obvious.) Find out what the woman wants to talk about. Don’t bore her with your preoccupations. It helps if you are funny, but don’t work on this or it will backfire.

Well guys – all the best with your philandering future.